Guys! How are you? If you’re looking to prove to your girl that you love her, we can help.
We understand as much as you do that men are from mars and girls are from venus. And, yes, sometimes it can seem as though girls are from another galaxy altogether. But showing that you love us doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be romantic, thoughtful and, more than anything else, sincere.
It’s a funny moment when you realise that you’re actually for real in love with the girl you’ve been dating. It sends shivers down your spine, and you feel true emotions. It’s funny, almost scary, but unbelievably exciting.
But it’s one thing to know in your heart of hearts that you love her, and quite another to show that you love her.
If you’ve never been in love before, or if you or she has been hurt in the past, showing that you love her can be tricky. Sometimes, you’re a bit unsure of yourself, a bit lost, and don’t know what to do next. Moreover, how do you know she’s going to reciprocate?
My first boyfriend thought he’d show me he loves me by taking me to watch his favourite ice hockey team. Did it work? Well, kinda. But he knew he had to do better next time. The process is different for everyone. But if you need a helping hand, here are 10 cute tips to prove that you love her.
Shower Her With Gifts
If you shower her with gifts, are you guilty of buying her love? Not really. Though it really does depend on how you do this.
Men have always been the gift-givers in a relationship by and large. They’ll occasionally return home after work with a special surprise gift for their girl, or they’ll treat their woman to a big expensive luxury, such as a new car.
This is the way it has been for a long time, and it’s the way it is now. Your girl deserves to be treated. If there is something nice she’s been wanting for a long time, show her that you love her and want to make her happy by buying her some nice things. Get her the dress she wants to wear at night, the books she needs to study, and the flowers she wants to put in her window.
Share your dessert with them
Joey doesn’t share food, but you do because you love her.
Let her know that you’re thinking of her
Sure, you think of her during the day and at night. Perhaps you think of her all the time. Perhaps you can’t get her out of your mind. But does she know this? If she doesn’t, it’s time to let her know that you think of her a lot.
Send her cute messages during the day while you’re both at work. Download a fun social app for couples that lets you send her doodles and video messages. When you’re apart, put in the effort to show her that you’re thinking of her and that she’s number one.
Cook them dinner
Even if you can’t cook, attempt to cook her a meal. Make her breakfast in bed. She’ll appreciate this cute gesture so much, and it will tell her that you’re a guy who’s in love with her and wants to make her happy.
Do a stunt
This one is a bit tricky to pull off, but girls are melted by grand gestures. You remember Romeo and Juliet, right? The guy literally killed himself for his woman! Would you do that?
Okay, you don’t have to do that. But in the 18th century, men used to have duels over the women they loved. Would you do that?
Okay, you don’t have to do that. You live in the 21st century, where the craziest stunt guys have to pull off to prove their love to women is to switch off their X-Box.
Think of a big stunt you can do that you know would prove your love to her. Think of something she’s always wanted you to do but you’ve refused out of fear or stubbornness. And then do it.
(Just don’t injure yourself – it’s cute but she’ll get upset)
Let her choose the movie tonight
Yes, even if it’s The Notebook you still have to sit and watch it.
Hey, she watched Die Hard with you. Twelve times.
Make her your priority
Guys, we really hate it when we’re not your number one priority. In fact, it’s not so much that we hate it – it’s more that it makes us sad, and doesn’t convince us of your love.
I’ve dated guys in the past who have put their sports teams before me. One time, we were meant to be going to a concert together but he had to cancel because it clashed with a sports fixture that had been moved. Not cool.
If you want to prove to her that you love her, she HAS to be your top priority.
Stay up all night with her
If she’s upset and texting you at night, don’t say you have to sleep now. Stay up with her. Be late for work.
Listen to her
Active listening is a key tool in any happy relationship. But how many of us actively listen to our partners? While they’re talking to us, we’re usually tapping away on our phones. We’re only half-listening and waiting for them to finish so we can have our say or crack on with our day.
Only half-listening to her while you kill some zombies on your X-Box isn’t showing that you love her. It’s showing that you like her and the zombies.
The next time she talks, give her your full, undivided attention. Put your phone down, and engage with her. Don’t interrupt, but wait until she’s finished speaking and then ask questions.
Don’t just have time for her – make time for her
Sure, you have some time for her. You’re free this Saturday evening perhaps. We all have time. I could have time to spare to see a total stranger if I wanted to. But what about making time to see your partner? Do you ever do that?
Disrupting your schedule for her is a cute way of showing her that you love her. You’re so madly in love with her that you’re willing to break plans for her. It’s a powerfully romantic thing to do.